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Information on Internet predators 'scary' for parents
Dawson program warns parents to place computers in 'high traffic' areas and to monitor children's usage
By BARRY HALVORSON bhalvorson@journal-spectator.com

Staff photo by Barry Halvorson Gabrielle Gomez looks over her mother Lisa Gomez's shoulder as both read the information handed out during Wednesday night's Cyber Safety presentation at the Dawson School Gym.
In a different kind of art reflecting life, Gabrielle Gomez, 11, once again asked her mother Lisa Gomez about hooking the family computer up to the Internet following Tuesday's presentation on Internet Predators at the Dawson School Gym.

"You should trust me," the daughter told mom.

"I wouldn't do any of those things (like giving out personal information.)"

Only a short time before, the program's presenter Sgt. Paul Aleman of the Cyber Crimes Unit of the Texas Attorney General's Office had told mom, along with about 30 other concerned parents, such a comment is exactly what a child would say to gain access to the Web - a fact mom was quick to pick up on.

"No, I can't trust you on this," Mom said with one of those maternal smiles crossing her face.

A mother of seven, including a 14-year-old son, Gomez explained her family has a home computer, but doesn't have Internet service in part because what little she knew scared her.

"I didn't know much about any of this other than the stories I've seen on the news on television," she said.

"And I try to change channels when the kids walk in the room so they aren't afraid. But all through the presentation I was telling Gabrielle this information is scary. Really scary."

Despite her fears, she said she may have learned enough to actually allow the Internet into her home.

"My husband has been wanting the Internet too," she said.

"And I liked some of the information they did talk about. Our computer is in a back bedroom, but if we got the Internet, we could move it into the living room because they talked about putting it in a high traffic area so you could keep track of what the kids were doing."

While not a parent, Rachel Polasek deals with youngsters and the Internet on a regular basis as the technology director for the Boys & Girls Club of Wharton. She said she learned a lot.

"I didn't know a lot of the lingo used," she said. "But this presentation makes me want to learn more about it as well as the various social networking sites the kids might be visiting. Particularly site like 'My Space' that focus on teens. I'm considering doing a program for the club members on what I learned during the meeting."

Teen chat lingo


121 - one to one
A/S/L? - age, sex, location
BBL - be back later
BRB - be right back
CYO - see you online
F2F - face to face
ILU - I love you
IPN - I'm posting naked
IRL - in real life
IWALU - I will always
love you
KOL - kiss on lips
LDR - long distance relationship

LMIRL - let's meet in real
life
LTNS - long time, no see
LUWAMH - love you with
all my heart
M/F - male or female
MOSS - member of same
sex
MOTOS - member of the
opposite sex
NIFOC - naked in front of
computer
NP - nosy parents

OLL - online love
P2P - peer to peer
P911 - my parents are
coming
PA - parent alert
PAL - parents are listening

PANB - parents are nearby

PDA - public display of affection

POS - parent over shoulder

ROTFL- rolling on the
floor laughing
SO - significant other
TAW - teachers are watching

TOY - thinking of you
W/E - whatever
WTGP - want to go private?

WUF - where are you
from
* from the Cyber Safety
Unit of the Texas Attorney
General's office.

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